Disruptions in the flow of love, either through trauma, loss, or exclusions, create disturbances that, if carried across generations, often lead to illness, emotional distress, addictions, and broken relationships. Because the longing for repair and balance runs deep, children, out of love for mother or father, will try to carry their parent's pain and grief in an attempt to restore balance. The unconscious movement is to stay focused on the parents and not find fulfillment in one's life.
"I will carry this (pain, grief, etc.) out of love for you" are the unspoken words of the contract that keeps us entangled with our family system. Thus, we suffer.
• What are you carrying for your family, mother, father, grandparents, and further back?
• Have you taken on burdens out of love and loyalty that keep you from living an authentic life?
Through rituals and Family Constellations, we'll take an in-depth look into what we carry for our families. With love and grace, we will find gentle ways to surrender what is not ours and step onto our path.